The Best Vibrators For Beginners

Buying your first vibrator can be daunting. It’s completely normal to feel overwhelmed by the vast number of sexual wellness products out there and even intimidated by the funky shapes and sizes of some of the vibrators on sale. But don’t worry, we’re here to help you find the best vibrator to match your vibe and unlock all of the benefits self-pleasure brings. Trust us, you won’t ever look back.

While there are some tried and tested trusty favourites out there, finding the right vibrator for you will depend on your needs and might require a little research. Would you prefer internal or external stimulation? Or both! Does it need to be quiet? Do you need it to be easy to use or are you up for a bit of experimenting? If you’re not sure how to use a vibrator, just make the rules yourself! As long as you stick to using external vibrators for external pleasure only, you can’t go wrong.

Now you’ve got some of the bases covered, it’s time for you to begin the exciting search for your first vibrator! To lend you a helping hand, we’ve got together the best vibrators for beginners, so you can find yours.

My Viv is a go-to brand for the best vibrators for beginners. All their products are simple, unintimidating, but oh-so effective. The Slim Vibrator is a good starting point for your first vibrator as it’s easy to use and can be used both internally and externally. With three speed settings, seven pulsation modes, and a five-inch length, the vibrator is ideal for taking things slow and getting to know your body. The low price point also makes the Slim Vibrator an ideal first buy.

Smile Maker’s The Surfer is a clitoral vibrator designed to be used externally. The rounded head and little fins are purposely placed to create focused stimulation, while its tiny size (just under 10cm) makes it perfect for beginners who want a little extra control. With a super discreet sound, waterproof finish, and three speeds, The Surfer is a good buy for anyone looking to explore external stimulation for the first time.

One of the main benefits of looking after your sexual wellness is discovering what works for you and your body. You may be looking for a vibrator because you find penetration uncomfortable and want to explore external stimulation. If this rings true for you, My Viv and their Pebble Personal Massager is an ideal buy. The vibrator fits perfectly into your palm for control, while the tapered edge is easy to use and designed for targeted stimulation.

Unbound’s Bender vibrator is exactly what it says on the box: bendy. A perfect vibrator for beginners who want a little more freedom to explore, it can be used both internally for G-spot stimulation and externally for clitoral stimulation. Its flexible design and ten-speed setting make it perfect for getting to know your body and finding pleasure that’s comfortable.

The Billionaire is the classic-shaped vibrator that most people begin with as it can be used for both internal and external stimulation. One of Smile Makers’ bestselling vibrators, The Millionaire is hailed in its reviews as being one the best first vibrators for getting to know what all the fuss is about. The four speed settings, two pulsation modes, and waterproof finish make it a good companion wherever you are most comfortable.

Sometimes, the simplest are the best, particularly when choosing your first vibrator. The Unbound Zip is exactly that. The no-frills, single-speed, bullet-style vibrator is perfect for those looking to explore their sexual pleasure for the first time. It’s super easy to use, quiet, and waterproof, whilst still being powerful. The targeted tip allows for targeted stimulation, making this a vibrator you won’t want to leave behind.

If you’re looking for something that will help you find your G-spot, then Self Love’s G-Spot Vibrator is the one you need to focus your attention on. The soft silicone vibrator is ideal for helping any self-care beginners discover what all the fuss is about thanks to its ten vibrations, three speeds, and seven pulses to experiment with. The high-performing vibrator can be used to stimulate the G-spot and clitoris, and can also be used as a body massager. Talk about a show-off. 

If you’re a boujie beginner that always opts for the stylish choice, then meet Vush’s Rose 2. The bullet vibrator has it all — a cute, soft pink design, a soft and flexible finish, five intensity levels, five vibration patterns, AND precision points which bend and flex with your body. The result? Personalise your pleasure and find what makes you feel good. 

If you want your first vibrator to be so chic it’s worth leaving out on your bedside, then the Maude Vibe External Personal Massager is the one for you. Designed with external use in mind, this super soft, discreet, and water-resistant toy is the bedroom partner you need. Exploring your sexual wellness starts here.

If you’re picturing a classic vibrator, then this might be the type of one that comes to mind. The Planet Pleasure Wand Vibrator is a multi-use, external vibrator that’s designed for your pleasure. The ultra-smooth, round-headed vibrator has ten (yes, TEN!) power settings that provide maximum body contact for maximum pleasure. If you’re looking for a place to start, then this is one of the best vibrators for beginners if you ask us.

Okay, so we know that setting the mood is a big part of the sexual wellness experience and the Lelo Siri 2 Bullet Massager takes things to a whole new level. This sound-controlled vibrator responds to ambient noise so that you can get in tune with your body. It’s ultra-quiet, meaning all you’ll hear is your music, and it has eight sound-controlled pre-set vibration settings. We told you this vibrator takes it up a gear.